Interpreting the Words of Another

One of the hottest You Tube videos around features a set of twins who seem to be intent in conversation. Because of their age, their speech is babbling to most of us, but they seem to have a sense of what they are trying to say.

While their antics and conversation are fun to watch, it has also become quite fun to listen to people interpret the conversation. Some have said that the discussion is all about socks and fashion. The mismatched socks on one twin and the single sock on the other certainly could lead to that conclusion. Others have said it is about the refrigerator and perhaps what great snack might be hiding behind closed doors. Still others have supposed that it is nothing more than the mimicking of conversations that they have observed in adults or even their parents.

While we may never know what they were discussing, we are reminded that we all have conversations from time to time that require interpretation. This can happen because we use different definitions of the same word. Confusion in conversation is sometimes the result of culture differences. There are other times that we are just looking at opposite sides of the same problem or discussion point while believing that we are looking at the same side. And of course, sometimes we do just speak different languages.

Talking and communicating are not synonomous terms. For communication to take place, listening, understanding, clarifying, and interpreting may all need to take place. Today, I was just wondering how many domestic and even international incidents might be prevented if our real intent was to communicate rather than talk. As for me - well, I think they were discussing an obvious wardrobe malfunction!

Watching Japan

Over the past week, the attention of the world has been focused on Japan. The 8.9, now upgraded to 9.0, earthquake, the 23 foot Tsunami, the countless aftershocks, and the failing nuclear reactors have kept our attention on news footage and update bulletins. The tremendous destruction,the loss of life, and the ongoing suffering have been the main focuses of most news reports.

However, I have picked up a thread of reporting that needs more coverage - it is the way the Japanese people have responded to the disaster and to each other. One brief account featured a restaurant that is providing free meals to people in their area. The cook lost his home but comes to work to help others. Grocery store shelves are nearly empty but people wait patiently in line to buy a little for themselves and some for their neighbors. Gasoline shortages have resulted in lines of cars miles long, but no one gets out of their car to fight. I have not seen any reports of looting although stores that still stand, stand without guards.

I know that we do not have a picture of every person or every village, but still, I am impressed with the human decency that is being demonstrated during a most difficult time. I cannot help but compare what is going on in Japan to New Orleans following Katrina. The news was filled with crime, looting, and hording. What a different picture we see in Japan!

We import excellent automobiles and outstanding electronics, among many other things, from Japan. I am just thinking this morning that we could use an import of some of the human kindness that is being demonstrated day by day. Continue to pray for those who are enduring so much.